I have never wanted to be a dentist. I can’t imagine anything ickier than looking into people’s mouths all day. While I appreciate the amount of education, technical proficiency and professionalism that’s required, dentists seem to be highly-trained mechanics who have chosen to work in a specific medical medium, with a different set of diagnostic equipment and tools with which to perform the work on living repair projects.
Of course, this is coming from someone who works at a funeral home and regularly runs into people who go out of their way to tell me they don’t know how or why I would do that. But those types of comments neither dissuade me nor make me ponder less about other people’s professions.
I wonder if mechanics envy dentists their ever-present dental assistants they have at their beck and call? My father stank as a mechanic, but loved drafting me to be his stepinfetchit when he was working on a repair job. Granted, dentists probably don’t drop as many parts that seem magnetically drawn to roll underneath a large piece of equipment and need someone to crawl down and get them, but I’m sure most mechanics would love to have someone on standby to do so.
A dentist friend of mine told me that even though there are breaks in the action when his dental assistant is idle, she provides him with someone with whom to banter and to laugh at his jokes, as the patient can’t very well do those things mid-procedure. My dentist solves that problem by not being funny. Although dentistry is very necessary and helpful, it looks to be a somewhat lonely, task-oriented occupation that involves chastising people for poor hygiene practices: hardly ideal for building great conversational relationships. I’m just sayin’.
Last week, I had the experience of accompanying (chauffeuring to and paying for) my daughter to an oral surgeon’s office. Our dentist referred her to have a front tooth extracted before he put braces on her.
If I thought dentistry seemed lonely, oral surgery represents one-night stands within the profession. The oral surgeon was pleasant enough, but it was like wham, bam, thank you for the payment, ma’am, and the process was over. We were immediately sent on our way. No time for relationship-building there. He greeted us minimally, explained the procedure and did his business with amazing brevity.
However, beforehand, we had a bit of a wait. And it was during that wait that I got some clues as to his personality, based on lobby magazine choices and office music choices. Time, People and Sports Illustrated were the only three titles there. No leisurely women’s magazine reads. I settled into an uncomfortable lobby chair with the Feb. 5 edition of Time just in time for my daughter to be called back. I was allowed to go and watch.
As interesting as the Time article on the women’s march on Washington was, it could not compete with watching someone else’s discomfort and potential pain. I had been to another oral surgeon for my pre-braces extractions, as well as for wisdom teeth removal, so I was certain this would be interesting to witness. Perhaps akin to watching someone struggle to pry open a pickle jar. However, everything went surprisingly effortlessly.
The only noteworthy aspect, really, was the rather loud, supposed background music to which they x-rayed my daughter’s mouth, numbed it and performed the extraction: Don McClean’s “American Pie,” Joan Jett’s “I Love Rock and Roll” and Creedence Clearwater Revival’s “Bad Moon Rising,” respectively. Interesting surgical soundtrack. Wasn’t sure if they were trying for pleasure or distraction. At least Pat Benatar’s “Hit Me With Your Best Shot” and John Mellencamp’s “Hurt So Good” weren’t included!
My daughter’s chief concerns afterward were if she could practice track later that day and if her mouth would be visibly bruised and swollen upon her return to school. I shared my story of having two impacted wisdom teeth removed the day before the man of my teenage dreams returned from the Air Force Academy for a rare visit. The most appropriate song would have been Steven Tyler’s “My Own Worst Enemy.” Comparatively, my daughter was a very lucky girl.